Showing posts with label islamic. Show all posts
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Sunday, 24 October 2010

Prayer is Judged and Based On Action

Bismillah ir-Rahman ir-Rahim 

Man is created rather weak, yet everything involves, affects and saddens him. Also he is utterly lacking in power, yet the calamities and enemies that afflict him are numerous. He is also extremely poor and has many needs. In addition, he is indolent and incapable, yet the burden of life is very heavy. Being a human being, he is connected with the rest of the world, yet the vanishing of the things he loves and with which he is familiar, and the grief that this can cause, repeatedly hurt him. Finally, his mentality and senses inspire him toward glorious objectives and point him to eternal gains, but he is unable, impatient, powerless, and has rather a short life time.


"In God alone, essence (what He is) and existence (that he is) coincide."
Ibn Sina (Avicenna)

Prayer is judged based on action as this is what a person can control. Of course a person's mind should be focused on what they are doing especially when it is worship.

The position of all four madhaahib–Maalikis, Shadflies, Hannibal’s, and Hanafis–with no difference of opinion–is that a person who does not pray, ever, is not a Muslim.

However, Allah is the most Merciful and is fully aware that Shaitan will try and discourage you from praying and therefore he will use all types of distraction.

Therefore a person should stick to their actions as this means you are worshipping Allah even though your desires are telling you otherwise, and InshaAllah you will be rewarded for your patience.

Slowly, these distractions will start to go away and one will obtain satisfaction, so one must not give up.

WHY DOES MAN NEED TO PRAY?
Fajr Salah.
Thus, it can be clearly understood how essential it is for a spirit in this state at the time of Fajr—the early morning—to present a petition, through prayer and supplication, to the Court of an All-Powerful One of Majesty, an All-Compassionate One of Grace. Man must seek success and help from Him. How necessary a point of support it is so that he can bear and endure the troubles and burdens that he might face in daytime.

End of the day.

After a long and hectic day at work, how difficult it is for a tired person to stand on the prayer-mat and concentrate on his prayers to Allah Almighty. Snuggled in a warm and cozy bed, how difficult it is to get up at the call of Mu'adhin: "Come to prayer, come to success." The famous doctor and philosopher Ibn Sina (Avicenna), recalls such a moment in his life.
Once in a very cold and icy night, he and his slave were resting in an inn in a remote part of Khurasan. During the night he felt thirsty and shouted out to his slave to get him some water. The salve had no desire to leave his warm bed, so he pretended not to hear Avicenna's call. But finally after repeated calls he reluctantly got up and went to fetch the water. A little while later, the melodious sound of the Adhan filled the air. Avicenna began to think about the person calling the believers to prayer. My slave Abdullah, he mused, has always respected and admired me. He seizes any opportunity to lavish praise and affection on me but tonight, he preferred his own comfort to my needs. On the other hand, look at this Persian slave of Allah. He left his warm bed to go out in the chilly night, he made ablution in the icy water of the stream, and then he ascended the high minaret of the mosque to glorify He Whom he truly serves.

"I bear witness that there is none to be worshipped except Allah." "I bear witness that Muhammad is the Messenger of Allah."

Tonight, Avicenna records; I learned the essence of true love; that love which results in complete obedience. The love of Allah demands total and unconditional obedience.

Allah almighty says:

    "Say (O Muhammad (pbuh) to mankind): 'If you (really) love Allah then follow me (i.e. accept Islamic monotheism, follow the Quran and the Sunnah), Allah will love you and forgive you your sins.' And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." (3:31)

PRAYER: A CRY OF THE INNER SOUL

His arrogance and pride has often led man to behave as an oppressor and a tyrant. Some men have been so carried away by their own self-importance that they have even claimed divinity. Pharaoh (Firaun), the ruler of Egypt, was among those who announced:

"I am your supreme lord."

With his sense of greatness and pride, Firaun subjugated the Israelites and made their lives wretched and miserable.

But is man really as strong and great as his ego tells him? The Quran tells us the reality of man's nature.

    "Allah is He who created you in (a state of) weakness, then gave you strength after weakness, then after strength gave (you) weakness and gray hair. He creates what He wills. And it is He Who is the All-Knowing, the All-Powerful (i.e. Able to do all things)." (30:54)

Weakness in the beginning and weakness in the end: this is the essence of man. He is so weak and helpless at birth that his entire existence depends on his parents and family. If he were to be abandoned in these crucial first years, he could not survive on his own. He needs a gentle and loving hand, not only in his infancy but in his childhood and even in the teenage years.

As this child enters the years of youth and independence, he begins to take control of his own life. He looks with pride at his strong physique, his handsome features and his many talents. He begins to despise those of lesser abilities, even scorning those parents who exhausted their own health to nurture him. He becomes unjust and cruel, using his strength and vigor to dominate others. He thinks he is a master, free to act as he wills. But does this youth, these good looks and this strength last forever? Only in a few decades he begins to lose his strength. His health begins to deteriorate, gray hair covers his head and slowly, his youth is replaced by old age. This transformation from young to old is slow, but it is there. The seconds of time are ticking away mercilessly, taking every young person towards their old age. The young dictator will one day be as feeble and weak as the day he was born. But this time there will be no parents to nurture him; if, as is often the case, he is rejected by his own family, his future will be a desolate one in some persons' home.

"Weakness in the beginning and weakness in the end: this is the essence of man.
The message is clear: the real Master is Allah. He alone is Mighty, He Alone is great.

He alone is never tired, never needs rest, and is never dependent upon anyone.

Allahu Akbar!
Allahu Akbar!
Allahu Akbar - Allah is the Greatest.
God is knowledge; he is knowing; and he is being known. Since God has knowledge of his own essence, and since God is one, it follows that the essence of God is knowledge. And knowledge means that he knows himself, and is known by himself.
- Ibn Sina, "al-Risalat al-Arshiya”
We shall each be rewarded according to what is in our heart and how we act in the world.

With this message clear in his mind, man realizes that he should show his humility to the Almighty Lord, the One Who created him. And what can be a better way to show one's humility than to stand like a slave before Him; to bow and prostrate to Him; to raise hands in supplication to Him.

Prayer is not a burden forced upon man but is the inner cry of every soul. Each heart cries to recognize its Creator. It is but a small token of gratitude for all the innumerable bounties bestowed upon mankind by the Creator.

In our everyday lives, we smile and say a warm thank-you to the small acts of kindness which others do for us. so what about thanking Allah, Who in His infinite Mercy has provided for every single one of our needs. Just observe the beauty and perfection of the earth around you, and fall down in gratitude to you Lord.

Glory be to You. We have no knowledge save what You have taught us. Surely You are the All-Knowing, the All-Wise.

O God! Bestow blessings and peace upon the one You sent as a teacher to Your servants to instruct them in knowledge of You and worship of You, and to make known the treasures of Your Names, the interpreter of the signs or verses of Your Book of the Universe, and a mirror, through his worship, to the Grace of Your Lordship, and upon all his family and Companions, and have mercy on us and all believing men and women. Amen. For the sake of Your Compassion, O Most Compassionate of the compassionate!
May Allah (Subhanahu WA Tala) give spouse of their choice to dear sisters and brothers in Islam? Ameen.

May Allah make our efforts sincere and keep us all on the straight path...........

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Tuesday, 5 October 2010

“Command your children to make Salah when they become seven years old

Are we fostering in our children a sense of pride in our Deen? We are so busy trying to make ends meet in our day-to-day struggle to survive that our children's Islamic upbringing is being neglected.

As parents we want our children to be successful doctors, lawyers and engineers. How many of us want our Parents must take care of teaching their children as well as successful professionals today? I see too many Muslim children who try to hide their Islam in the public settings.

It is easier to try to fit in than stand out in the crowd. But that is human nature, is it not? How many of us parents do the same at work?

Absorbed in this world, you’ve made it your burden.
Rise above this world. There is another vision.
All your life you’ve paid attention to your experiences, but never to your Self.
Are you searching for your Soul? Then come out of your prison.
Leave the stream and join the river that flows into the Ocean.
It will not lead you astray.
Let the beauty you seek be what you do.

~Rumi

 Parents must take care of teaching their children the duties of Islam and other virtues that are recommended in Shari`ah, and worldly matters that they need in order to live a decent life in this world.

The man should start by teaching them the most important things, then the next most important. So he starts by teaching them correct ‘Aqidah, free from shirk and bid’ah. Then he teaches them the acts of worship, especially prayer. Then he teaches them and trains them in good manners and characteristics, and everything that is good.

Allah says (interpretation of the meaning):

“And (remember) when Luqman said to his son when he was advising him: “O my son! Join not in worship others with Allah. Verily, joining others in worship with Allah is a great Zulm (wrong) indeed”

[Luqman 31:13]

"DO NOT BE ASHAMED OF LEARNING AND TEACHING ALLAH SWT RELGION"

“Verily we have sent it down as an Arabic Qur’an in order that you may understand” [Surah Yusuf: 2]

“And thus We have inspired unto you (O Muhammad) an Arabic Qur’an that you may warn the mother of the towns (Makkah) and all around it” [Surah ash-Shura: 7]

“And truly this (the Qur’an) is a revelation from the Lord of the 'Alamin (mankind, jinn’s and all that exists), which the trustworthy Ruh (Jibril) has brought down upon your heart (O Muhammad) that you may be (one) of the warners, in the plain Arabic language” [Surah ash-Shura: 192-195]


“Whoeverchildren to make Salah seeking that which is with Him, he will win. And whoever learns something for other than Allah, he will not reach the goal, nor will his acquired knowledge bring him closer to Allah.”

~ Al-Hasan al-Basri

Abdullah ibn Amr ibn al-Asr, narrated that the Apostle of Allah (peace be upon him) said,

“Command your children to make Salah when they become seven years old…” Abu Dawud

This does not mean that parents can only start teaching their children how to perform it when they reach the age of seven. Rather, informal instruction should start when a child starts to show an interest in Salah, which usually occurs around the age of two. It is only human nature that children love to imitate their parents. In fact, this is one method that Allah has provided us for teaching our youth.

Here are some quick tips:

    * Informal teaching should start when child starts to show interest usually occurs around the age of two.
    * Let them pretend to make Salah.
    * Invite them to pray along side and join the family jammah prayer.
    * At a young age, children usually imitate what they see, so it is important to always pray in front of them
    * One of the first steps is to learn al-Fatiha which should begin around the age of three or four. Break down the instructions by using reasonable number of verses or small segments.
    * The practice session should only last between 5 to 15 minutes. At this age consistency is more important than length of practice.
    * Remind them that they are praying to Allah to thank him for all He has given them
    * Important to remember that not all children are ready at the same time and that not everyday will the child is ready to learn new materials.
    * Educational products can assist parents in achieving success with their children because children generally learn in different ways therefore introduction of material through different format (video, coloring book, going to the masjid) will help ease and reinforce the learning process.
    * One of the most important things that a parent should do is to praise the child for each accomplished task and encouragement to achieve more success.

 How to teach a child to steal: He! He! He!

Carefully lock away from him all fruits and sweets. Allow him no money for personal expenses. If you miss anything, accuse him of having taken it. If you send him out to make purchases, count the change with suspicious care when he returns. If he has lost a few pennies, accuse him of having spent them for candy. If you never buy candy for him, this will teach him a means of supplying he, and probably you next accusation will be true.

Strike children and they will learn to strike each other; scold them and they learn to quarrel; give them drums and flags and uniforms and toy guns and they desire to become professional murderers. Open their letters, listen to their conversations with their young friends, pry into their little secrets, invade their private rooms without knocking, and you make them meddlers and disagreeable companions.

Less than seven years stealing is sometimes part of learning about "me" and "mine". Children may still see what belongs to family and close friends as the same as being theirs. As they learn more about owning and sharing things they will learn to ask and not take something that belongs to someone else. Parents need to tell them:
Some children know what is right and wrong but still steal. This is because something is going wrong in their lives and they need your help to sort it out.

...Don’t react too quickly if you find your child has stolen. Give yourself time to think about it first so you can talk to the child calmly.
...Try to find the cause and fix it.
... Teach and show the things you want your children to learn, e.g. why it is important to respect others’ belongings.

    * Make sure that your children do not see you do things like cheating, avoiding paying fares for example.
    * Children learn much more from what you do than from what you say.
.......Do not label the children or young people as thieves, or discuss the problem with other adults in front of them


Less than seven years stealing is sometimes part of learning about "me" and "mine". Children may still see what belongs to family and close friends as the same as being theirs. As they learn more about owning and sharing things they will learn to ask and not take something that belongs to someone else. Parents need to tell them:
Some children know what is right and wrong but still steal. This is because something is going wrong in their lives and they need your help to sort it out.

Say I Love You
Tell your child you love him every day -- no matter his age. Even on trying days or after a parent-child disagreement, when you don't exactly "like your child" at that mom

You never know what you have until you lose it, and once you lose it, you can never get it back.

Most of all! Be a friend to your child.

Listen to his or her problems and help him to solve them islamically.

Make your child active in finding the solution to their problem. Don't try to shelter your child from the harshness of reality.

If you are not open-minded and helpful in resolving their problems, they will find someone else who is, and that person may not have the proper Islamic perspective.

Drugs, violence, sexual promiscuity, lack of respect for the authority and an attitude that everyone should be respected regardless of his/her morality are but just a few.

The good news is that these are the problems to which only Islam offers the correct solution.

No matter what environment we choose for our children, we must remember that the role we play as a parent to teach our children their religion and help them to develop pride in it is crucial.

Let's all work together as an Islamic community to help ourselves and to help our children be good Muslims.

.........May Allah make our efforts sincere and keep us all on the straight path...........

Feel free to Share the information here with everyone you know,
And earn Sawab-e-Jariya..May Allah swt make it a source of Sawab-e-Jariya for u and me .Ameen

P.S.: "Have fun praying    don’t forget to make dua for me.